It is no secret that Separation causes Suffering; but how exactly do we cause separation?
Here is a short list of some of the best ways to create separation:
Make others wrong.
Try to make others to do the things we think they should do.
Believe we know better.
Close our hearts - inhibit our love.
Make others prove themselves (that they are worthy).
Think we should have power over others.
Try to control others and control situations.
Feel sorry for someone (see them as powerless).
Shift responsibility onto others.
Lie, cheat or steal.
Withhold our feelings.
Judge someone in any way.
Hold a grudge.
Talk or think badly about someone.
Not pay attention
Here's how to connect and create oneness:
Allow people to do things the way they want to do them.
Honor the beliefs of others even if we don't agree.
Allow others the space to express themselves.
Open our hearts - love without inhibitions.
See others as unconditionally worthy.
See others as equally powerful.
Allow people to be who they are.
Have compassion for others (yet see their power and perfection).
Be in integrity.
Talk and think positively about others.
In grace & gratitude,